You know how it is, you come home from work, have dinner and then sit down to watch TV or listen to some music and you feel hungry. But this is not hunger for real food, this is hunger to eat something wicked, something like - and I'm going to use the 'c' word - chocolate!Emotional eatingIt's a problem and, no matter how much you have eaten during the day, you will still get that urge because this sort of hunger is not due to lack of food or a desire to eat because you need food but it is 100% emotional. You just need the taste of food in your mouth and on your hands to help you relax.
Of course, you can tell yourself, no, and make yourself not have a chocolate snack or you can hide all the chocolates on a high cupboard where you can't get at them but that doesn't always solve the problem. And telling yourself that you have to go without is a sure way to intensify the craving.
Now, I'm not pretending I know the answer, if I did I'd be a very rich man, but one way out of this circle is to continue your relaxation by doing something different to what you do during the day. And one thing that we all enjoy doing, even if we have difficulty in motivating ourselves to do it, is cleaning and tidying the place in which we live.
Tidying the home. Is this serious?Do I really mean that? Sure, and you know it's true, start cleaning or polishing and in no time you are involved in what you're doing and beginning to enjoy it. OK, the problem is making a start but here's where we turn a had habit into a good one.
Make a list of easy jobs that you need to do like dust the woodwork or clean the cooker front. These are things that you know take only a few minutes but which you never get round to doing.
Now - and here's the trick - tell yourself that it's very therapeutic to do this and it will help make you feel, not just relaxed, but good inside. And you know this is true.
As soon as the chocolate urge bites and you feel like a nibble, pick up the list and do one of the jobs. Far from being a chore, it will be over in no time and you will enjoy doing it. Not only that but your craving will have been forgotten and you will feel good inside, pleased with what you have done.
Sitting down and watching TV is one way to relax in the evenings but it's not the only way. Often doing something constructive will help you to feel relaxed and maybe help you in other ways too.